Nigerian author and pastor of the Agape Christian Ministries, Funke Adejumo has advised women to try their utmost best to honor their husbands in their matrimonial homes.
According to her, honouring your husband is directly linked with the blessings the Good Lord would pour into your life. She admonished women to use the principle of submitting themselves to their husbands as the bible teaches.
She said: “Even if you don’t know how to kneel to greet your husband, give him the highest level of honour in your culture and you shall be surprised at the level of blessings you shall receive from God.”
“Normally, in modern times most women think honouring a man too much is culturally outmoded in some jurisdictions. Even in most African cultures where the African man was revered and honoured as a ‘God’ is now changing with the influx of Western education and ways of life which had contextualised some aspects of the African culture as a form of slavery and that has affected most homes as our societies have evolved.”
“There is no honour I will give to anybody on earth if I have not given it to my husband. Anybody, spiritual leaders, secular leaders, it doesn’t matter but I’ve given it to my husband first,”
“The way you treat your husband is actually the way people will help you treat him.
“Even if you call yourselves by your first name, when you go outside, hide it, get a pet name for him and use it, because the way you treat your husband is the way others would treat him regardless of one’s culture.”
“There is no man you treat like a king that would not treat you like a queen. The way you address him is the way he will respond to you.”
“If you treat your man well, love can let him act in ways you might think he is stupid, but he is not.
“Out of love, he might be doing everything for you, but when you continually disrespect him, he may decide to show you his masculinity, it is there that, you shall know that his shortness is an advantage”.
“In private or in public learn to honour him. There is a Level of blessing that comes into your life as a married woman if you know how to honour your husband”.
“Don’t have a Canadian marriage, don’t have an African marriage, don’t have an American marriage, have bible marriage.
“If you know how to honour your husband, there is a level of blessing that comes into your life. A good husband is very scarce, if you have one, please keep him. He may not be perfect, he has his challenges, he has his fears, but don’t use his weaknesses against him.”
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